July 2006 Archives

Elegant or Not?

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We recently discussed the old, awful chestnut -- "With All Due Respect..." -- and how that phrase is an indicator of an insult or a criticism to come. What is the best way to approach someone with criticism? Do you need to set them up first with a padded phrase? Is it best to just start a critical sentence without an introductory warning? 

Men in Pastels

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I'll admit it: I look good in soft pink and powder blue and creamy yellow -- it must be my pasty-white Nebraska skin that reflects those colors back into the world that makes me look truly alive instead of ghostly-dead. When I grew up in Nebraska, men who wore pink or pastels or creams were men who were secure in their sexuality and unafraid of being stereotyped by other straight men and women as "on-the-fence" or "in-the-opposite-mix." Growing up in Nebraska you didn't have many Gay people who where "out" because it was dangerous to do so back then. 
Well that was ugly. Today at 4:40pm Eastern we experienced a wholesale loss of services from Media Temple, my expensive hosting provider, and that complete and total failure of redundant website hosting, FTP, email and everything else that I am virtually made of demonstrates just how awful and tender and fragile technology is on the internet and how poor planning can come around and chomp even a good company on the behind. 

Chivalry and the City

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There was a news report the other day tolling the death knell for male chivalry in the city because "gender equality" now means men no longer feel obligated by the historic expectation of society to give up their train or bus or subway seat to a woman.

How to Spam a Blog

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We all know what a traditional Spammer looks and smells like. They overload your blog with links to diet pills and fat creams and breast enhancers and penis extenders. You can smell their nastiness permeating across the universe. 

When Boys Cry

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On Sunday, when Tiger Woods won the British Open for the second time in a row and the third time overall, he celebrated his win by sobbing on his caddy's shoulder. That was Tiger's first win after the death of his father Earl in May and, as Tiger told the world later, he was crying because he missed his father so much.

When Boys Cry

Some Fan Mail For You

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Yesterday I was sent the following piece of fan mail -- for you, really, not for me -- and I share it with you now:
I didn't realize intelligent conversation (sans political banter) existed on the internet. How refreshing.
I thanked the person -- who has yet to join our discussions -- and I thought the comment was interesting and insightful for a new reader. While my name is on this Urban Semiotic blog -- this blog doesn’t belong to me -- it belongs to you. Without you, and your comments, I would not be as interested or as active as I am here every day. We have had our share of dividing political and religious discussions and while I appreciate those heavy debates it seems more people participate when the conversation is less core beliefs-threatening and more core values-introspective as together we try to figure out and analyze the skin of the Human Beast that covers us all. One of the most moving opening lines of play was spoken by a frantic woman entering the stage breathless and bedraggled as she tries to catch her breath between gasps for air:
"I have this human life to live and I don't know what to do with it."
Do you want to hug her or pity her or yell at her? Like every good play we are left, in the end, with more questions and fewer certainties about the predictable path of living and dying. Her human and universal dilemma is terrifying because her crisis is the common risk we face in our lives. Will we founder or flourish trying to divine our place in the world? Will every opportunity for caring and self-satiety escape our eager grasp despite our best efforts? Will we end up living in greater loneliness and deeper darkness than that in which we were birthed headlong -- and without our permission -- into this human life?
Is there a universal ideal of physical human beauty that crosses cultural, moral, aesthetic, religious and ethnic lines all over the world? 

With All Due Respect

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If someone starts talking to you by saying, "With all due respect..." beware you will soon to be disrespected!

Final Cut Studio 5.1 Review

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Final Cut Studio 5.1 Final Cut Studio 5.1 is the newest powerhouse editing and production suite from Apple. With Final Cut Studio 5.1 by your side you can edit, produce and distribute professional quality video. After recovering from the sticker-shock of shelling out $1,200.00 USD for Final Cut Studio 5.1, you immediately begin to see the magic of the suite and the fact that Final Cut Studio 5.1 now works natively on Intel-Macs as a Universal Application makes life even faster and sweeter!

Make sure you check the technical requirements for Final Cut Studio 5.1 before you buy because you will need a lot of horsepower to run this suite on your machine. With Final Cut Studio 5.1 you have -- at your trembling fingertips -- the same software professional movie makers and television programs use to create their shows. 

Change in Guest Authors

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I modified the requirements for being listed on our Guest Authors page. You now only need to have three articles published over the last year to qualify for publication on that page! You may now find our delightful Katha, with four articles currently published, on that page once again along with our beloved Chris who has a mighty 17 published articles as of right now! Congrats! Welcome!
If I offered you a gift -- and you must accept the gift and you must use the gift only on yourself -- which one of these two things would you choose: Getting plastic surgery; or receiving a killer new computer setup? Here are the details:
When we lived in the Alphabet City part of the East Village in New York City our apartment building was located one block away from a fire station and two blocks from a hospital. Having on-duty firemen and working doctors and nurses as your neighbors was a great comfort in a dangerous city, but one of the requirements of having such close proximity to first responders was dealing with the continuous caw of sirens 24 hours a day. 

Mercy Killing or Murder?

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Over the last 24 hours at least 20 comments have been submitted -- many broke our Comments Policy and did not get published -- for my four-month old article on the Katrina aftermath called When Drowning Is Not Good Enough.

How to Unring a Bell

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Is it possible to "unring" a bell? My first attorney in New York argued long ago it was not possible to "unring" a bell once it had been rung. He explained to me how, in law school, he was taught the first thing you learn in open court is if your client "rings a bell" -- that is, says something incriminating or stupid or wrong -- you must not draw attention to it by "ringing" that bell again.

"Once the bell is rung," he would say, "there's no way to unring it, so ignore it and move along." Does "unringing a bell" have resonance beyond a Big Box O' Justice to find reverberation in our ordinary lives? If we say something wrong or make a big public mistake -- do we apologize and make amends -- or is it better to just "move along" without stopping to sound the gaffe again and then try to silently to fix the error with positive future action? Can a bell be "unrung" or not?
Who knew a Bluetooth keyboard could provide so much joy and wanting for nothing else? My feelings about the gigantic and plainly rotten keyboard wrist rest on my MacBook Pro finally drove me away from that keyboard and onto the standalone Apple wireless keyboard using Bluetooth technology!
A year ago a High-Definition (HD) video camera would have cost you $5,000.00 USD; six months ago the same HD camera would have cost you $3,000.00 USD; today, the Sony Handycam HDR-HC3 HD camera costs just over $1,000.00 USD.

Sony HDV image
This article was written by Kathakali Chatterjee.

What can we call Wisconsin? Awesome? Mesmerizing? Awful? Shocking? In India, my previous concept of Winter was nothing below 42 degrees and even then I used to wrap up! I was expecting it to be cold in Wisconsin, but not 25 below zero! To be precise, theoretically I knew it was going to be 25 below zero, but I was clueless about the impact of that temperature on my body. It was spine-chilling. But the beauty was breathtaking!

America 2004

Summer Subway Underworld

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When the heat soars and The Girls in Their Summer Dresses are on parade, the penises come out, hands start grabbing for flesh, and the whole world becomes hot and bothered! A Recent New York Times article unmasked the ugly truth of the Summer subway underworld:

Women know the drill. Just as some men reflexively check to see if they have their wallets on a crowded train, women check their bodies. Pull in your backside and your front. Wedge a large bag for protection between yourself and the nearest anonymous male rider, who might, just might, be planning something. Put on your fiercest face, and brace yourself for contact that seems too deliberate to be accidental, too prolonged to be random.
Have you noticed -- in your personal life or in your work life -- when someone is cut loose or leaves of their own mind how that person heading away is usually demonized by those left behind? Is that demonization a necessary means to restore order caused by the one leaving or is that character assassination merely a frivolous attempt to fill the hole created by the one who left by those who remain? Why is it so hard to stay neutral and wish someone well without having to mock them behind their back later or cloak them in a veil of evil in order to move forward?
Brandon Routh plays Superman in the new Superman Returns movie but he isn't really Superman. Christopher Reeve is Superman, and Reeve was and shall always be, the definitive Superman. Watching Routh stumble his way through the movie makes one long for the deep talent of Christopher Reeve -- who was trained at Cornell and Juilliard and he cut his teeth on the live stage -- and you wonder how shallow the talent pool must be in Hollywood when a lightweight like Routh is gifted the role of a lifetime. As you can see in the images below one Superman is intense and in the moment and believable while the other is frail, fake and flailing:

 Christopher ReeveBrandon Routh

Today Janna and I celebrate our 18th century -- err, year -- of wedded bliss! I promised to spend the day with my Everlasting Beauty -- and that is a delicious experience rivaled only by the fabled Everlasting Gobstopper -- and so, I may not be as readily available here to comment as we reflect on the scope of our lives together. We may even cry a little. Our marriage is the greatest accomplishment of my life. Our marriage is a safe harbor from the destruction and disappointments of the world as well as being the pinnacle for sharing the joys and accomplishments we give and receive from the universe.
Why does it seem the longer we live the more we cry in front of other people? Do we cry more because of our maturing emotions? Do we cry more because our bodies are breaking down and we are losing control? Or do we cry more because we no longer need to hide who we are in the world? It seems the "private cry" years are between ages 10-30 -- at least for many men -- and after 30 the "cry eye enigma" gives the "dry eye syndrome" a run for its money.
If there is a reality show on television I will watch it and I will enjoy it and I will -- usually -- be furious with the winner because the person who wins is rarely a kind and gentle spirit. The sort of person who wins a reality television show is ordinarily cruel and misbegotten and hateful. The biggest and the best of all the reality shows is Big Brother, now in its seventh season on CBS. Last year Keyser Soze won Big Brother 6 and it was a huge disappointment. I'm back with Big Brother this year because the live feeds are irresistible. To be able to watch live on the internet 24/7 what is happening inside the Big Brother house is a terrific treat if you are interested in human behavior. Janelle and Kaysar work out together while plotting against others in the house:

Big Brother 7

If something catastrophic happened to you computer -- theft, hurricane, lightning strike -- would you be able to restore your machine to its pristine presence before the accident? Do you backup your vital data? 
What frames the Four Corners of your world? Show us. Use a few words, four images and some connective tissue to weave your corners for us. Use digital images. Draw your corners by hand. Create a collage and digitize it for web publication. Invent a whole new way to share your sight with us. 
It looks like Monday we were officially added to the 9Rules blog community in the "Special Interests" category and I want to make it clear I had no vote -- and was never asked -- where this blog would land over at 9Rules even though I asked several times where this blog would be placed. The fact this blog was even located in a community was news to me until I discovered it myself this morning. 
I was scheduled to serve my first day of Jury Duty today but since New Jersey is closed for business due to a budget crisis I am here with you instead. 
As we celebrate freedom and independence today in America, let's not forget that freedom was won in blood and earned in sweat and a cornerstone of our freedom is the safety in sowing narrow views that may not be a part of the mainstream liking. When a president makes a partisan, political, speech on the Fourth of July in front of American troops who are not allowed to disagree with him, we begin to see a puppet show pretending to be leadership where a bobbing-head politician pontificates in front of a solemn and mute military audience beaten down by dust and bones. 
In a haunted harkening back to my bog article last Friday, You are an Electronic Jigsaw Puzzle, the Air Force is funding a new study of blogs to "provide information analysts and warfighters with invaluable help in fighting the war on terrorism." In the 650-word press release announcing the new Air Force blog analysis, the word warfighter appears twice.

Dr. Brian E. Ulicny, senior scientist, and Dr. Mieczyslaw M. Kokar, president, Versatile Information Systems Inc., Framingham, Mass., will receive approximately $450,000 in funding for the 3-year project entitled Automated Ontologically-Based Link Analysis of International Web Logs for the Timely Discovery of Relevant and Credible Information. It can be challenging for information analysts to tell what's important in blogs unless you analyze patterns, Ulicny said. Patterns include the content of the blogs as well as what hyperlinks are contained within the blog.
Yesterday we discussed the Top Ten Reasons I Love my MacBook Pro and today, to be fair, we look at the darker side of the MacBook Pro in the definitive Top Ten List of Hates: 
I have had my MacBook Pro for a month now and so far I believe it is the best machine I have ever owned. I have owned a lot of machines! The key to loving the MacBook Pro was to make it my main box -- my ThinkPad T43p is still here -- but over there as my secondary machine now. Now I do everything with my MacBook Pro. 

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