August 2006 Archives

I was raised in a time where the philosophy of the sole proprietorship -- or any business, really -- was "The Customer is Always Right." My grandfather owned a pharmacy in a small town in Nebraska and when, as a young boy, I would visit him during the summer and "work" for him, I watched as each person walked into his pharmacy for service and grandfather would stop whatever he was doing and give the customer 100% of his time and attention. Sometimes they wouldn't even ask him a question - they were there just to shoot the breeze. Sometimes he didn't sell them anything.

Oftentimes he gave them more time than they bought in service. Today I wonder what happened to that Golden Rule of Business where "The Customer is Always Right."
All animals innately fear only one thing: Fire. All humans seek fire, create fire and want to control fire. Have we always sought out fire or was there a time when we feared the flames? How did we learn to run to the heat instead of away from it? Is our desire for fire the one thing that separates our animal instinct from beast? How does fire anneal our cultural covenants when we create our most basic moral, aesthetic and intellectual memes?

Battery Hands

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We are bundled energy. Electricity bounces within us. We create our own current. We are our own batteries. The easiest way to share our proprietary energy is through a handshake. Shaking hands with someone is a heat exchange few of us realize -- an osmosis, if you will -- of two primary essences of life. Have you ever used the power in your body to heat up your hands to purposefully try to heal someone by touching them? I'm not talking about checking a child for a fever with your palm or massaging a sore muscle. I am talking about the determined decision by you to bring all the power and force you have in your body to heat up your hands with the direct intent of using your electricity to heal another person without flexing your hands in any way.
Some claim we are in the midst of an Imperial Presidency in the United States where entitlement, privilege, birthright and non-accountability for actions creates a royal purview that leads to a "no discussion" and "What I say goes" attitude in the office that was built to lead us all. There are some that claim the Bush family see themselves as landed American Royalty where the right to rule us is an innate and inborn power that must, and shall, continue for generations to come.

The Royal Family

Did Al-Qaeda Finally Get Us?

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At 10:45am Eastern time today this blog - and all my sites - stopped responding. We were dead in the water again and Media Temple, our web hosting service located in California, was down as well. A half an hour later the electricity went down here in Jersey City. I was wholly sitting in the dark. The first thing you think -- after being trained every day in fear and loathing by the Department of Homeland Security -- is: 
In our revived Men and Abortion discussion yesterday I brought up the notion that abortion is really a woman's issue because no matter what happens to the pregnancy it is the woman and not the man who must persevere and live with the decision for the rest of her life.

Plan B
I heard a saying the other day that everyone dies two times. You die the first time when you body dies. You die the second time when the last person who remembers you dies. Do you believe in two lifetimes or do you think we only die once? Are you only your body and merely a memory in others? Is the human need to be remembered in death what drives people to create buildings -- giant headstones in the form of monuments -- and to create physical things beyond children that will be preserved and protected by those who never knew the person but appreciate the aftereffects of the written work of Art, the musical composition or the stone sculpture? If memory isn't everlasting and is bound by the body, is the easiest way to achieve immortality through the Arts and architecture?
Four months ago, I posted an article here called Five Hundred Posts and Ten Thousand Comments celebrating the incredible comments we are fortunate to get here every day. Today, I am proud to share this Blog Stat with you:

15,000 Comments!
A good friend of mine in Nebraska -- who shall remain nameless unless he steps forward here -- sent me a great email yesterday full of fascinating thoughts and feelings as well as the following riff on unsavory and selfish parents:


JonBenet's accJohn Mark Karrused killer John Mark Karr  -- or is the more proper term "confessor killer" -- has already been drawn and quartered in the court of public opinion by the mainstream media vested to protect the public interest.

How did things go wrong so quickly and why does the media feed such a bloodthirst for information about a man who -- guilty or not -- is obviously not right in his mind or comfortable in his body even if he did he killing or even if he just thinks he did the killing?

In America, the notoriously accused are deemed the most guilty by associations created by the media even before being charged in the legal system.

The mainstream media opinion makers appear to live for guilt by insinuation. That must make for thrilling reporting but it makes lousy television and reading.


A Stretchable Morality

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I overheard a conversation the other day. The quick manipulation of morality to stretch doing the right thing was miserably revealing. One guy asked another if he were driving a car and a dog ran into the street and he hit the dog and broke its leg, would he stop to find the owner or help the dog?

It Ends Here

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How will the world end and will you be alive to see its demise?

One or One Hundred?

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Is it better to own 100% of one thing or one percent of 100 things?
The perverted murder of JonBenet is once again headline-wrenching news across the world. My greatest concern is not the death of JonBenet, but the lives of the children who are forced by their parents to participate in child beauty pageants.

I do not believe young children actively decide they want to compete against other children in beauty pageants and if they do, the parents must work to correct that inappropriate expression of prepubescent sexualization of their children and not allow participation in the inappropriate eroticization of childhood that is the underlying tease of those sorts of pageants. 
Yesterday we shared a great conversation concerning Divination, Knowing and Proprietary Learning and we discussed how you achieve knowledge through informational retrieval. We call that method of gathering information "pull" because you are going out there on your own and "pulling" what you want towards you. 
What is your favorite search engine and why? If you think you know something -- is that enough -- or do you feel a responsibility to back up your knowledge with outside facts?

Engaging the Elbow

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An Old World friend of mine taught me a long time ago how to recognize if someone was born into "Old Money" or not. You identify Old Money not by their houses or cars or their shoes or by the watches they wear. Those tokens are nouveau trinkets indicating no generationally seeded wealth. Those born into wealth never move their elbows. Old Money elbows are never engaged from their station on each side of the body because that unbending posture suggests no manual labor has ever been necessary. Staff is paid to do all the heavy lifting. If Old Money engages their elbows, they insult their ancestors while betraying their genetic entitlement and "that just isn't done." I... keep... trying... to type... this without... moving... my elbows!
HIV and AIDS are infections that still plague the face of the earth even though there are drug treatment therapies that can buy time for those infected.

Without medical intervention and treatment the average incubation period for HIV is 9-10 years and death after a full-blown AIDS diagnosis is still only 9.2 months
Is an "Audio Book" a book? In our recent discussion about The Essence of a Book we determined there is a special beauty in a book that can only beheld between your hands.

The Devil You Know

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Is the "Devil you know" truly better than "the Devil you don't know?"

The Essence of a Book

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In yesterday's article, Smelling of Pencils, the comments discussion turned -- as it always does -- away from the main core of the argument of the article and into another realm. We shared a brief discussion about books and that conversation led me back into wondering about books and publishing and what makes up the essence of a book: The Author, the Reader, the Publisher? The book itself? The process of it all? What is a book nowadays anyway? 

Smelling of Pencils

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There are two pencil factories in Jersey City. One is the 150-year old Dixon Ticonderoga pencil factory that now warehouses 467 apartments instead of pencils and erasers. The other is the 120-year-old General Pencil Company that lives a block away from me on Fleet Street.

Gen Pen

Orange, New Jersey Detective Kieran Shields was pronounced dead on Tuesday at University Hospital in Newark. A shotgun blast, aimed from above in an ambush-style slaying, penetrated his neck and shattered his collarbone just missing the protection of his bullet-proof vest.

Badges and Bloods

Is funny always funny? Or does the sense of what's funny change with the cultural ebb-and-flow over time of what certain people find funny? In a recent thread of comments here, one regular commenter made a "joke" about work where the new management team were "Nazis" and the workers were "Jews." 
When do the dead cost more than the living? Is there greater worth being dead than being a survivor? In the wake of a national tragedy the lost automatically become more important than the living and I wonder why such great value is placed on the dead. After the Towers fell there was great mourning and public expression of loss. 
This article was written by Kathakali Chatterjee.

The director of my department at the University of Wisconsin-Stout came to me a couple of days ago when I was frantically working and trying to wrap up as my last day in the office. She wanted to know if I could spare a few minutes to talk to her. I gladly accepted the offer because I was looking for a break. When we came back to the office after half an hour talking, I saw the whole office was full of people I knew, loved and respected. In the corner there was a huge cake waiting for me as I was the only "holy cow" girl in that office!

Leaving Wisconsin

Artistry and Intention

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There is a fine line between doing something right and just doing something. The bright line between those two efforts is defined by: The intention to add Art to the job.

Apple Shake 4.1 Review

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Apple Shake 4.1 is a high-level Apple Shake 4.1professional digital composting tool now aimed directly at the pro-consumer market.

Shake used to be a $10,000.00 USD product. Then it was a $5,000.00 USD product. In 2004 Shake 3.5 cost $3,500.00 USD. Today you can purchase Shake 4.1 -- now as a Universal Application -- for around $400.00 USD.

Why was Shake so expensive? Shake was -- and still is -- the program professional movie production houses use to create special 2D and 3D effects. 
If you fart in public, do you:

A). Make a joke out of it.

B). Quote a medical study saying everyone farts 14 times a day.

C). Pretend you didn't deal it. 
With the recent explosions of vitriol from Mel Gibson against the Jews in general and with the new insurgency against Israel proper by Hezbollah in particular, one begins to wonder about the how and the why of blaming the world's troubles on the Jews. I decided to do some quick Google searches on historically paired stereotypical keywords to see what kind of hate against the Jews was being officially published on the internet and the results were hateful but not surprising. 
In a recent article, Every Time I Talk to You, I Hear Sirens, we discussed how sounds define your environment. Today, using the same places described in the previous article, I hope we can investigate if smell is even more strongly related to place and memory than sound. 
Women all over the internet are up in arms and supporting "Emily" -- the allegedly scored wife of "Steven" -- by linking to "Emily's" blog: http://thatgirlemily.blogspot.com/ and adding "Emily" to their Blogrolls in support of her public revenge. The only problem is "Emily" -- and her cheating husband "Steven" -- are fake. 

The Art of Snoring

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Is snoring the sign of a deep-sleep state or it is an ominous warning something is wrong? Do people know they snore? I have been accused of snoring but then I realize the person accusing me is only hearing her own snoring! At least that's what I think I think. It's hard to know what's happening when you're asleep. 

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